by Maxine Lyons
Being a passionate gardener, I have been tending several
gardens in my yard as well as many flower pots on our large deck so my hands
are in dirt quite often these days. I have been transplanting yellow primroses,
succulents, day lilies and sunflowers, focusing on the integrity of the roots,
noticing how each root system is different. For example, some plants require a
full root for transplanting while others need a partial root to survive.
Succulents do not need roots at all; pieces can be immersed in dirt and
re-establish their roots in soil in a short time.
So as I begin the long internal process of preparing for
the holidays, I am considering the meaning of roots in our lives--when we are
transplanted (as I was from the west to the east coast), would roots remain
intact, and I pondered, could I plant them deep and securely enough to thrive
and not merely survive the changes? I moved with my husband and two young kids,
truly uprooted from my family and age-old friends and all that was known and
familiar. With a lot of determination, I found that the most tenacious roots
assisted me in establishing my new grounding.
What are those elements that enhance the possibility of
roots taking hold firmly in new ground? I believe that we need a full root base
to nurture us. I was deeply rooted in my Jewish upbringing. I went to weekly
Shabbat services with my family, I attended with great delight Hebrew school,
confirmation classes, and the inspiring, call-to-action in the words of the
prophets, which were reinforced by our Reform temple's explicit social justice
emphasis (that led to my involvement in civil rights work and anti-war
activities in college). As these roots spread out, I explored my options as a
spiritual seeker, going from Reform to Conservative Judaism, learning and
teaching yoga, then to Jewish Renewal, and now, a combination of JewBu(ddhism)
and interfaith work. My underlying support was my father's influence on my
growth and development as he modeled empathy, tikkun olam, and our
responsibility to be charitable in word and deed to help others. Sharing common
ground with my caring, loving and supportive husband and two creative children
enabled me to establish the firmest of roots.
Reflecting on the meanings of roots brought me to teshuvah. I feel a connection with plant
roots. Roots are anchors; they absorb and conduct water and nutrients, storing
energy for later use. This is analogous to our human needs for roots; we also
need to absorb and replenish spiritual sustenance to store for use with family
and friends and in all meaningful pursuits in our lives. My intimate
friendships are the other anchors that also energize my life, enabling the
expanse and growth of my roots. This focused awareness of opening my heart and
making regular contributions allows me to continue tikkun olam, which,
returning to those core values of empathy, connections and helping others, are
particularly important now. Teshuvah requires that I become ever more
mindful of my behavior. With ample "fertilizers" of compassion,
caring and open heartedness, I can start the annual journey preparing for the Yamim
Noraim in my daily practices now and throughout the year.
My
father was a humble person, and his expansive root system, like those of a
sturdy tree, lay underground but the tree, his personhood, flourished,
benefiting everyone who was blessed to know him. I pray that his legacy will
continue to influence me to grow as I tend to my gardens and reap the benefits
of the abundant colorful flowers-- petunias cascading, and morning glories
stretching heavenward, spiraling on tomato plant stakes. (This is dedicated to the
memory of my dear dad, Alex Schoenbrun, on his fifth yahrzeit).
Maxine Lyons,
retired community educator, is currently CMM (Cooperative Metropolitan
Ministries) board member and co-facilitator of CMM's RUAH Spirituality
Programs,
active participant in the ALEPH prison pen pal program
("connecting Jews on the outside with Jews on the inside"), member of Temple Beth Zion, Brookline, and joyful wife of 36 years and mother of two
accomplished and wonderful thirty somethings.
Such appealing analogies fashioned into an organized and lovely tree of its own. You evoke sources of nourishment for all of us while honoring your father with the unique creativity that is yours. I find inspiration as well in the tree graphic, which highlights the symmetry/balance of what is above/below, visible/invisible, outer/inner.
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